I read a story not long ago about this man who is trying to understand what sex means to his wife.
So he asks: would you rather go away on holidays overseas or have sex?
To which she replies "go away on holidays" with no hesitation whatsoever.
Then he asks: what about a week-end trip?
Again, she picks the week-end trip.
A nice dinner? "Yes rather that than sex thank you!"
A walk on the beach?
And so he works his way down the list until she agrees that she might prefer to have sex than clean the oven.
But, gone are the days...
These days, given the choice between sleep and sex, sleep wins hands down ANY night!
Any men reading this (and perhaps some ladies too) must be thinking: my poor husband! So deprived!
So what is my secret you ask? I just do it! Now before all you feminist ladies start screaming, hear me out. I am not at all suggesting anyone do anything they don't want to do. All I am saying is, if you just 'go with the motion' (no pun intended!), more often than not, you (or at least I) end up enjoying it. And then I think to myself "It wasn't that bad. We should do that more often".